Therapies for men's issues and problems

As the role of men in the workplace, in relationships, and in society has changed to more strongly reflect equality, some men who have long existed in a male-dominated environment may find it difficult to adjust to societal changes and may experience stress and frustration when certain attitudes or behaviours are challenged. Stress at one's job, in familial relationships, or as a result of one's pursuit of romantic relationships and intimacy may also lead an individual to seek therapy.

One challenge men may face is the way that symptoms of mental health conditions are experienced. For example, a man who is experiencing depression may be angry and irritable, and men in general have been shown to often be less likely to cry, discuss their feelings, or express internal thoughts of suicide. Post traumatic stress may also lead to anger, as well as aggression, and men with PTSD may be somewhat more likely to cope with symptoms by using drugs or alcohol. Men may avoid seeking help until a point of crisis is reached, fearing that others will see them as weak, but treatment may become more complicated as a result.

While there are no male-specific diagnoses in the current edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5), common issues reported by men seeking therapy include:

  • Anger
  • Stress, which may present with somatic pains, complaints, or feelings of irritation or frustration
  • Work adjustment issues such as procrastination, avoidance, anger, or success sabotage
  • Substance dependency or addiction
  • Other dependency or addiction—Internet, gaming, gambling, sex
  • Body image issues
  • Bipolar
  • Depression, which might be experienced as boredom, lack of motivation, or feeling that one is blank or "stuck"
  • Relationship issues

Some men may experience fear and shame related to preconceived notions of their roles and responsibilities. For example, a man whose employment income is not sufficient to provide for the needs of his family may experience feelings of frustration or emasculation stemming from the belief that he should be able to provide for his family. This may especially be the case when a spouse or partner brings in more income or has a higher-paying job.

Because men are often conditioned by social norms to refrain from showing certain emotions, such as emotional vulnerability, fear, sensitivity, or dependence, they may fear that expressing these emotions will lead them to be perceived as less masculine. However, keeping back these emotions may cause other emotional difficulties, and those who attempt to hold back their feelings may find that health and well-being are negatively affected by the practice.

What can we treat?

ANXIETY

Most people feel anxious at times. But if these feelings are very strong, last a long time or impact your life then you should seek help.

PANIC ATTACKS

Panic attacks can be very frightening. When the fear of having a panic attack restricts your everyday activities it is time to get help.

ANGER

Although we all get angry from time to time, if anger is impacting your work and relationships it can be helpful to have some confidential help.

DEPRESSION

It is normal to sometimes feel down, but if you feel continually sad for weeks or months you may have depression. About 10% of people suffer from depression, and talking to a therapist helps recovery.

STRESS

Stress has a major impact on work and health. We can cope with a certain amount of pressure, but when this becomes too great we lose the ability to cope and become ill.

GRIEF

Bereavement affects people in different ways, and will usually be difficult. When the feelings of grief are impacting your work or relationships many months later, it may help to speak to someone.

EATING DISORDER

I can help with the ongoing counselling therapy for those recovering from Anorexia or other eating disorders.

TRAUMA

Psychological trauma, if left untreated, can easily lead to additional problems such as insomnia and depression.

WELL BEING

Continually feeling worthless or unloved is not normal, but moving away from these feelings can be difficult. Talking with a therapist can help with this.

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