Narcissistic Personality Disorder
In Greek mythology, Narcissus was a young man who fell in love with his own image reflected in water. He eventually died from starvation because he couldn't tear himself away from his own reflection.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is a term increasingly bandied about and refers to excessive self-love, however the concept is a bit more complicated than that because if sufferers of NPD securely loved themselves then this wouldn't be a psychological problem. The key point is that this is a kind of insecure self-love which leads to certain compulsive behaviours and restlessness that eventually lands the sufferer in trouble.
Another problem with NPD is that narcissists are usually great fun to be with during an initial encounter. It is the longer term relationships which become more problematic. And, of course it goes without saying that sufferers from NPD dominate the upper levels of public life and organisations.
What can we treat?
ANXIETY
Most people feel anxious at times. But if these feelings are very strong, last a long time or impact your life then you should seek help.
PANIC ATTACKS
Panic attacks can be very frightening. When the fear of having a panic attack restricts your everyday activities it is time to get help.
ANGER
Although we all get angry from time to time, if anger is impacting your work and relationships it can be helpful to have some confidential help.
DEPRESSION
It is normal to sometimes feel down, but if you feel continually sad for weeks or months you may have depression. About 10% of people suffer from depression, and talking to a therapist helps recovery.
STRESS
Stress has a major impact on work and health. We can cope with a certain amount of pressure, but when this becomes too great we lose the ability to cope and become ill.
GRIEF
Bereavement affects people in different ways, and will usually be difficult. When the feelings of grief are impacting your work or relationships many months later, it may help to speak to someone.
EATING DISORDER
I can help with the ongoing counselling therapy for those recovering from Anorexia or other eating disorders.
TRAUMA
Psychological trauma, if left untreated, can easily lead to additional problems such as insomnia and depression.
WELL BEING
Continually feeling worthless or unloved is not normal, but moving away from these feelings can be difficult. Talking with a therapist can help with this.